Wow, where to even begin. I have gotten so many e-mails, pm's, im's an posts with thoughts an prayers for my family an my babies who need a few X-tra ones. I'm gunna do my best on what I can find through my mail box's an post them here so everyone can see how wonderful they are.
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I would also like to give special Thanks to all of the Lurkers who have posted in my Threads with there well wishes as well. It honestly means alot to me that you would take the time out to respond to me re: my lil guy an we dont know ea other. Thank you!
If anyone is offended by my placing our private PM's and/or E-mails on here please let me know an I will take them off. My only objective here is to show how supportive you women are, an how lucky I am to have you all as friends!
Pm's
(unfortunately I cant post all the wonderful post's an reply's I have had but heres the pm's that were still saved in my box, there were none from when Sacarii was first born left they have been auto deleted.
And my pm box on JTM has also been deleted due to maintenance malfunction. So Thank you ladies from deep in my heart that have left messages an threads wishing us well!)
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linleyinbama
Hi my name is ***** , I had my baby July 29th at 26 weeks . He is still in the hospital but doing very well weighing in at 7 pounds 12oz. He was 1 pound 8 ounces when he was born . If you need anything or anyone to talk to Im here for you , just send me a pm. You are in my thoughts and prayers sweetie ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
babycantu
How are you and Sacarii doing? The pictures are so precious. I haven't seen an update lately. I will check the April 07 board. I just wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers!
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aquagrl
Hi! I was lurking on the premie board tonight because my husband and I are TTC #2 and our daughter ****** was born premature last year ..I stumbled on a post of yours and watched your video montage and just wanted to send get well prayers to your son and I hope that he is home very very soon. I remember what it was like living in the NICU day in and dayout and then I was sick and unable to go visit and I know just how hard it is. I just wanted to send a special wish your way even though you don't know me and I don't know you. Your video was great and he will love to watch it one day when he is old and gray.
Hang in there! ((HUGS)) ******
I usually post on January 2006 board.
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mromra
Hi!
Hope everything is ok with you and your baby too. I was so impressend and sensibilized with your story...it's a beautiffull exemple of strogness and love.
I'm finishing my graduation tomorrow, and i made a study with pregnant women hospitalized with arrested preterm labor, and Depression, anxiety, Stress and social support associated. I would like to have your permission to use your beautifull video in my presentation, in a way to enforce all the things that some women experienced along all the process. Would you please give me that authorization?! Thank you so much
Wish you all the best! And thank you again for sharing your story with so many people that could be living the same...it really helps anothers to continue to fight for the miracle of live...each day!
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SparkleMomma
I have been thinking so much of you guys lately. I am so sorry that you are going through a rough patch
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*BraydensMommy*
Hey I want you to know I have been praying for you and Sacarri.
I also wanted to tell you about another preemie site I frequent in case you want to post there and ask for some more prayers. I have cried and cried for you this week. Many hugs to you and your children.
Go to www.preemiegroup.com and at the bottom it says enter site. You need to post your story or answer a questionnaire b4 you can start posting. It's a wonderful site! I hope you will look at it if you get a chance. I'm also Braydensmommy on there too!!
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?I think?DLuce99
I keep looking to see if there is a followup on how Saccari is doing, but hadn't seen one.
Thoughts and prayers with you all,
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~JBJS~
*deleted un-related message* You montage was very touching. And please feel free to put it back up. I can only imagine the the struggles you face with Sacarii. Please feel free to drop back by the birth defects board. They are a great bunch of ladies who are a great support system. All have faced different challanges but there has been no better support system for me and the others.
So if you get some time please stop by, share your story if you like, or just say hi.
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?I think?
or shara2171
Nice meeting you! I remember reading about your labor and struggles at birth. You had a rough time with your little one those first few weeks. I'm glad everything went well and your precious baby is so sweet! Congratulations!
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MissyJ
Community Manager
MissyJ,
Hi Dusti,
I wanted to let you know that I did see your post about Sacarii's MRI results being in and the request from the doc for the appointment. I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as well.
I know you are busy so you don't have to respond. Just let me know if you need anything though ok?
Take care,
~Missy
"I'sn't this women wonderful, read this next pm"
Dusti,
I am so very sorry that you and Sacarii have had such a horrible battle.
I know that one of the wishes that you mentioned was having some family photos taken. Please let me know if this is something that perhaps we could help with. If you are not allowed to bring him home I am happy to make arrangements for a photographer to come to the hospital for you.
(((((((HUGS))))))) If there is anything else that you can think of in a way of support please let me know.
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wannabemama,
*Deleted friendly paragraph before this one" I'm glad you're on this board. You really are an inspiration to people...I don't know how you deal with everything you have to deal with, Dusti. God bless you and all your babies.
Love ya!
*another PM
You hangin' in there? How are things going? I haven't been able to be on too much lately, but I think about you guys a lot.
Take care,
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ShiningLight
(Now this right here is a true friend!)
Dusti,
Would you mind sending me your address? I'd like to help you out where I can. What do you need for the kiddos? Clothes, diapers, anything. It may not be for a couple of weeks that I can help financially, but whatever I can do for you hon...
Love ya.
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for Some reason we have some kind of connection between us, I often find myself looking for her updates as often as she does mineShee_Na
I'm so very sorry about Sacarii. I know your heart must have been crushed. but you are truly an amazing person - women and mother. Miracles do happen and Sacarii has proved them wrong. Wish I had some magical words to help heal that pain and make him "all better" but he's perfect just how he is. ~sigh you'd think as much as I usually ramble I'd have more to say. Just know you guys are always in my thoughts and prayers. I'm always here to listen if you need me to. That strange connection remains between us and I'm sure it always will.
OK that's it. Hope everything else in your life is well.
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Shureem
hi dusti, I don't post much on dec 06 but I was so moved and touched by this last thing with sacarii but can't seem to find the update on him I am sure you've said it a million times so I don't want to bother just wondering if I can get an update obviously good news. do you know the link to where you posted or did you not post one??? thanks so much and sorry for the bother. I hope everyitng is getting better with you and yours.
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Shee_Na
I sent this to you in a pm and wanted to make sure you got it. I found your number in my pm box and I'm going to text you my phone number. You call me if you need me ok?
Dusti I've been in tears for you since last night. I wish I could do something to make all this better. I'm at a loss as to what to do to help. I hope you get to take him to get his pictures done and also get a molding of his hand and foot prints just in case. I pray to god nothing happens to him. He is strong and he will continue to fight.
If you need to talk day or night please call me or email me ok? I'm here and I'm going to send this to your other email to. I'm here for you. I also get texts so if that's easier.
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Its times like these where you know, Prayers can do amazing things!
Unfortunately, I dont know the womens S/N, so hopefully she'll see this an then pm me me her S/N
Dusti-
cathy58
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Its times like these where you know, Prayers can do amazing things!Unfortunately, I dont know the womens S/N, so hopefully she'll see this an then pm me me her S/N
Dusti-
You don't know me...but I've been a lurker on the Dec 2006 board for------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
quite
some time (my son was due Jan so that is the board I frequented...but
he was
born in December...which is why I drop in occasionally). I have
followed
your story from the beginning- from when your water broke prematurely
up to
now. Your strength and courage absolutely amaze me. You are such a
strong
woman and a wonderful mother. When I saw your post this morning my
heart
broke. I immediately sent a message to all my Mommy groups to make
sure
they keep Sacarii in their prayers. Please stay strong and know you
have an
army of Mommies behind you.
Warmly,
Jennifer
P.S. We're going to make sure you get that photographer to you so you
can
get the family picture you've always wanted.
cathy58
Girl I just wanted to say I was praying for you and little man. You have been a great support to me and all the women on our board. I hope all goes well for your family
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model_mommy23
(Isn't this just amazing? The heart on this girl just blows my mind..an all of these women are my friends...wow!)
Hey Dusti, this is ***** from Pg & Single........I have been praying for you and Sacarii nonstop since I read what was going on. You have always taken up for me and supported me when things were rough for me. I wish I was in Spokane and could give you a big hug. I'm sorry I was only able to donate 5 dollars for ya'll to have some family pictures, but I only have 20 dollars in my bank account right now. I wish I could give it all to your wonderful family because NOBODY deserves it more than you. Thank you for everything you have said to me. You are truly an amazing woman and right now my biggest wish (besides Sacarii getting better) is to one day be even half as good a mom as you. The world would be a better place if there were more people like you in it. Please kiss Sacarii for me and you all have ALL my love.
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T_Bunny147
Hey girl. You know my thoughts are with you and all your babies right now. We've been thru a lot, or should I say, seen each other go thru a lot, and I cannot imagine all the trauma of having your baby be so sick and be so helpless to his fight. But just being there with him and for him is all he needs from you. Your his Mommy and he needs you more than anything. Stay strong!!
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blonderose
It's ******. (blonderose) I just wanted to send a few thoughts your way.
First of all, you are such an extremely strong woman. Remember the scripture "God is faithful, and he will not let you be tested beyond your strength but with your testing He will also provide the way out so that you may be able to endure it" (1 Corinthians 10:13)
This will pass. And whether it turns out the way we all are hoping for or not, it is a part of God's plan and Sacarii will be in good hands either way. He is soooo loved by so many, and just know that we are all praying for him and you. I can't wait to see the pictures that you are going to get done. Hang in there and let me know if you need anything at all.
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bcgirl74
Hi Dusti, I am a January 2007 member and just want to send my sincere hopes that your dear sweet son recovers fully. I have followed Sacarii's story since his early birth and I know he's a fighter. You have amazing strength and courage and have been through so much. Wishing you all the best and my thoughts and prayers are with you and Sacarii and your other children at this time.
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sarah1010
Dusti,
I don't know if you mind me posting, I was due in Oct 06, but unfortunately lost that baby, anyway I have followed the the boards around Oct 06 just to see how everyone was progressing, and I fell upon your story, you have been in my prayers over the months, you are truly an angel as is sacarii and the rest of your children. I pray for your and your family's continued health.
Sarah
Thank you Ladies!
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